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“What We Say Matters”
We are living in a unique time. It seems fashionable to be rude in public. If something is on your mind, by all means say it. It matters little if your thoughts are profanity laced, alcohol induced, or just out of impulse. The prevailing idea says it is perfectly reasonable to act or speak without thinking – just “apologize” later. We must live with constant awareness. In a very real fashion, our culture subtlety affects us. We each occupy our own small stage that others see on a regular basis. What do they see? How do you react in pressure filled situations?
This is where scriptural principles come in. James said, be…slow to speak and slow to anger, James 1:19b. Putting this verse into practice is difficult to say the least, especially when we are prone to stress. Hardly anyone starts out their day planning to go out and say words that they will later regret. These things come on suddenly. This is why James wrote, no one can tame the tongue; it is a restless evil and full of deadly poison, James 3:8. So if we are going to have success in this area, we must take quick maneuvers when we feel the urge to vent our emotions. Gaining the ability to be slow to speak or react in certain situations takes practice. Sometimes we will not get it right. But over time, we can find success. Solomon wrote, when there are many words, transgress is unavoidable, but he who restrains his lips is wise, Proverbs 10:19. See also Proverbs 17:27-28.
We are all players on our own individual stage. The world is watching. While it may not be fair, quick impressions can be lasting ones. When we allow the heat of the moment to get to us and we respond openly in words and emotion we can do lasting damage to our influence. Once spoken, words cannot be taken back. They reveal what is on the inside. They can do much harm. See how great a forest is set aflame by such a small fire, James 3:5. It has been said, “speak in haste and you will make the best speech you have ever regretted.” If you are like me, there may be some moments on the stage of life you would like to have back. But we cannot. Those moments are over. And while they may be over, we do have the present and can learn to be aware of the potential for danger in this area.
How are you performing on the stage of life? What do others see? What lasting impressions are being made? Make it your desire to represent our Lord in everything you do. You’ll be glad you did.
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